There are a lot of people out here who, at least one time, thought about how men and women think and why there are so many differences between them. You know, if you ask a girl to describe her ideal partner and you listen to her, you'll soon realise that she describe another woman.
And I'm thinking, why shouldn't she love another person like her ? I mean, we all like ourselves so, teoreticaly, we look for people that are jus like us. Big problem though, when we found them we aren't attracted to them. :) People are attracted to those different from them.
Remember the first week of your relationship, when everything you discovered about your partener brought you closer and closer to him. Everything he does was something new for you. And here is a hint for men. Guys if you continue to show her something new about yourself, you'll keep her forever beside you.
Now the real problem is when women find themselves in a relationship, they constantly try to change the parter to the way she is. And here you have to be very careful. You will never succeed if you want to change a person, even more so your partner. Love him the way he is. You don't need a second you, you need a MAN ! Don't turn him into a woman.Same for men.
You can actually influenced the others, but this is something completely different subject, that I'm gonna discuss it in another article.
Never try to change your partner. You love him or her for who he or she is, not for what you want to be !
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